I want to know when it's time to end a relationship with someone who consistently

sarahloveskris

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lies? My fiance and I have been together for about three years. We have kids, we live together, he is 30, I am 29. We are about to get married soon .... BUT ,,,, every now and then, I find things either on his email or on his phone that are not appropriate for someone if they are about to get married. For instance, I found an email to a female saying this " Hey, we talked before, I didn't know if you wanted to talk again. I have some pics if you're interested. I think you are very very pretty".... this email was dated on November 23rd, 2009. When I showed him the email and asked him about it, of course he had no idea what I was talking about ,,and he said that the email was a long time ago ,, way before he and I met,,, which would have been in 2005-2006 .... Maybe someone can properly inform me,,, he says that hotmail gets their dates messed up and that email was not sent last month. So, do you guys think the hotmail dates were messed up or is he just a big ol' liar? We are too old and I have too much time invested into this relationship to carry this childish stuff on... What should it take for me to walk away from him. I love him, which makes it hard,, but I'm just about to the point where I am ready to find someone who wants to be faithful. Like I said, he has a history of playing on the computer and calling women and stuff like that, so I'm not suprised,,, what to ya'll think???
 
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