i want to know why my boyfriend tends to ignore me everytime we argue?

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when we argue and talk things out sometimes it hurts the things he says but nothing hurts more than complete silence from him :( we aren't talking at the moment because of the same situation and it bothers me idk what to do to show him that im actually hurt by this and mainly because its a STUPID reason why hes ignoring me. & i tried talking to him but he always waits till he wants to talk to talk to me.

ps: im 15 (im really mature for my age) & he's 17, we've been going out for 3 months & its been pretty strong besides this point ...
 
Isn't that annoying? A lot of guys do that, and its just a form of them closing down. They prefer not to argue and make you angrier, so they say nothing at all. Unfortunately, it makes a lot of women more upset. I've broken up with men because of this, and their lack of ability to communicate with me. I need a man who is willing to talk things through and fight with me if need be. You're not alone. Sit him down after this argument is buried, and tell him how you feel. Tell him things need to change or you two won't work out because of your vastly different communication styles.
 
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