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<blockquote data-quote="SophieJade" data-source="post: 2051639" data-attributes="member: 739074">its a tricky situation.you didn&#039;t want to, and that, in a way, makes it forced, but you never made that clear to him.you needed to say, no i don&#039;t want to.but i also think you may have been, maybe still are, suffering from depression, which can mar a person&#039;s judgement significantly. you had no self preservation drive. you just didn&#039;t care, and i think that&#039;s what made you just give up without even trying.the second time, when you fought, that may be classified as rape, as you tried to fight him off.but again, you didn&#039;t say no.however, i refuse to believe that he thought you honestly did want to. it must have been obvious from your body language the first couple of times that it wasn&#039;t what you wanted.and feeling so down about yourself, you eventually gave him what he wanted. by pretending to like it.that was a mistake, definitely.but there was fault on both sides, here.he can&#039;t have been stupid enough to believe you wanted to be with him.i suggest that you do go to your doctor.depending where you live (in australia they have them) there are free clinics for this sort of thing.i imagine they&#039;d be in most western countries too.so i&#039;d look into going to one of these places for help.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="SophieJade, post: 2051639, member: 739074"] its a tricky situation. you didn't want to, and that, in a way, makes it forced, but you never made that clear to him. you needed to say, no i don't want to. but i also think you may have been, maybe still are, suffering from depression, which can mar a person's judgement significantly. you had no self preservation drive. you just didn't care, and i think that's what made you just give up without even trying. the second time, when you fought, that may be classified as rape, as you tried to fight him off. but again, you didn't say no. however, i refuse to believe that he thought you honestly did want to. it must have been obvious from your body language the first couple of times that it wasn't what you wanted. and feeling so down about yourself, you eventually gave him what he wanted. by pretending to like it. that was a mistake, definitely. but there was fault on both sides, here. he can't have been stupid enough to believe you wanted to be with him. i suggest that you do go to your doctor. depending where you live (in australia they have them) there are free clinics for this sort of thing. i imagine they'd be in most western countries too. so i'd look into going to one of these places for help. [/QUOTE]

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