I was raped and stabbed whilst coming home from a night out in town whilst walking up the road from the bus stop about a year ago. The police were informed but they never found the man. I keep having flash backs and dreams about that night.
I have recently formed a relationship with this lovely guy, the first guy i've been since that night and he has hinted that he is ready to take our relationship to the next level. However I'm scared that if i do have sex with him, then I'm going to have flash backs of that night whilst I'm with him and that hes going to ask questions about the scars on my tummy and on my legs. I haven't told him about the night and I'm scared to have sex.
What should I do? I don't know how to bring up what happened with him? and i'm scared that he'll think it's my fault.
I have recently formed a relationship with this lovely guy, the first guy i've been since that night and he has hinted that he is ready to take our relationship to the next level. However I'm scared that if i do have sex with him, then I'm going to have flash backs of that night whilst I'm with him and that hes going to ask questions about the scars on my tummy and on my legs. I haven't told him about the night and I'm scared to have sex.
What should I do? I don't know how to bring up what happened with him? and i'm scared that he'll think it's my fault.