Iam Jealous of my sister...Iam mad at my BoyFriend because....?

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Me and my sister are really close, My dad both got us cars. I got a mitsubishi Diamante 03 silver and tinted windows leather seats and sun roof(Boy Car) and My sister got a Olds Mobile 01gold leather seats and a sun roof. When I was younger my mother always compared me and my sister. How she is this but Iam that. Me and my mother is not close at all. She takes up for my sister. I moved out Iam 21 I have my own place,good job, and Iam a junior in college. Since I moved out my mother dont call me or anything. just call me when it deals with money. My boyfriend dont like my car at all. He compares me and my sister car, because he loves her car but want me to get rid of mine. It bothers me alot because my mother compars me and my sister all the time. It makes me Really upset when he does that because it sparks up jealousy towards me sister and I DONT WANT TO BE LIKE THAT!!! Iam now upset with him because I am tired of him saying negative stuff about my car, then says well your sister car is better then yours. It reminds me of how my mother compars me to my sister. Sooo Iam I being petty. I just dont know how to deal with this situation.
 
I would talk to your boyfriend about the situation and ask him why he keeps comparing you to your sister and let him know that it generally bothers you because of the way that your mom always compared you two. If he is understanding, he will stop the rude comparisons, and its just a car. Thats materialistic, whats the big deal anyways.
BUT if hes not mature enough to quit complaining, then NEXXXXT.
 
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