a guy is young (like 18) and still real wants to play the field, and hook up with different girls and explore his options. the thing is, he really started to develop feelings for one of his friends who he has known for like a year. unlike many of the girls he has been attracted to, he has never had sex with this girl. they have kissed and held hands, but never done the dirty. the temptation is hard for him to bear though. and even though he really has true feelings for the girl, his bachelor ways urge him to not commit. how would a guy deal with this? would the most logical way of dealing with this be to completely avoid any contact with the girl he really has feelings for? that way, he can continue to play the field, but not be distracted by a girl who really does make his heart go pitter patter. how would a guy like this deal with actually finding a girl he truly respects?!?