Hell no man!!! I LOVE Michael's music, and yes I'm a guy. I have the Thriller album in my car right now. The fact is the man made very very good music and is a respectable artist. His personal life may be messed up, but he's a legend in music. Many people like his music, even the people who would crack on you for listening to it. How can anyone not start moving when Billie Jean comes on??
And for the hell of it, check out this remix of Billie Jean by DJ Jazzy Jeff. Pretty cool. http://youtube.com/watch?v=m9MqoGN7zKM