If someone complains of no work then turns down ALL job offers, is it laziness?

debi

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A friend of mine has a disabled husband. She works despite being diabetic & in poor health. He has turned down every temp job that I & others offered to him. We've all made a point of doing this because we know their financial situation. Rather than hiring a licensed contractor for flooring work, we've asked him first. He turns down all the offers. It doesn't seem to matter how easy we make it for him. He always has a reason for not doing this or any other job. Is there any other way we can help? We love her a lot.
David L. that makes a lot of sense. I feel awful now. All of us only wanted to help because they are so far behind on house, car, etc. It feels like we took a dump on the guy while he's down. Thank you for the insight.
 
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