If the father shows no interest in you while you're pregnant, is it...

Taryn

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...possible things will change afterwards? Long story short, I'm 7 months pregnant and my son's father left me during the first month, I've been trying to patch things up and get along for 6 months and no matter what I do it always has the same result. We only fight here and there because he ignores me and is always out having a good time acting like he doesn't have a kid on the way, other than that we get along fine. He stopped having sex with me when I started getting too big in the belly, now recently he won't even kiss me and he pretends I don't exist most of the time. All I need to stay happy is just a small amount of positive time spent with him because I still love him, and he is always "too busy" to even spare a half hour for me every other day. If I would stop talking to him and wait for him to talk to me, I doubt he ever would. Recently I've decided to stop my love interest for him and basically give up trying. But every time I do that, he is real nice to me and makes me like him again. I can't stand the back and forth shit, if you don't want me, just leave me alone, if you do, quit breaking my heart and acting like I'm a burden in your life. My question is, will things change after the baby? There is a small amount of love that I think will never die between us, but is it strong enough to get us back together after the pregnancy?
 
stop talking to him like that. Tell him if he don't want to be with you fine. & tell him the only time your going to talk to him is if it has something to do with the baby. To me sounds like he doesn't want to grow up and be a daddy!! The old saying any man can make a baby but it takes a real man to raise it
 
Probably tha small hope you're clinging to wil get you hurt in the end, if he's not interested now then maybe not tomorrow or ever. But the good thing is, if there's a will there's a way! So just do your best on it.
 
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Is it POSSIBLE? Yes, I suppose it is. But I highly recommend you don't hold your breath expecting it to happen. It's a really REALLY long shot.

If you don't like the back and forth, stop accepting the back and forth.
 
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