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<blockquote data-quote="zee" data-source="post: 2201783" data-attributes="member: 239063">I&#039;ve never understood Muslim girls who tell me they won&#039;t tell their future husband this about them. If you&#039;re about to commit to a lifelong relationship with someone wouldn&#039;t you be able to be open enough to tell them about your past? They become so ashamed about it and they think their fiance is going to leave them or tell everyone...why would you want to marry someone like that in the first place?I just don&#039;t get it in the sense that this is supposed to be your life partner. You&#039;re supposed to be more open and sharing to them than anyone else. Yet, you&#039;re scared of their reaction to this? If the person you&#039;re marrying really cared about you, whether you&#039;re a virgin or not shouldn&#039;t matter.Maya, I completely disagree with that. Your sex life is something that concerns your current partner. I&#039;m not saying go on tangents about how you&#039;re not a virgin, but they deserve to know as they are now the one sleeping with you. I totally disagree in concealing things. Hate to break it to you, sweetheart..&quot;Concealing&quot;=Lying. I would NEVER want my future husband to lie to me, and I wouldn&#039;t to him .It&#039;s worse if you&#039;re caught in a lie with someone that&#039;s supposed to be most trusted rather than telling them right off the batMaged, I&#039;m a girl. I would never want to be with a guy I had to keep stuff from. and I&#039;m not getting married anytime soon, so I don&#039;t need that Dua, but thanks.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="zee, post: 2201783, member: 239063"] I've never understood Muslim girls who tell me they won't tell their future husband this about them. If you're about to commit to a lifelong relationship with someone wouldn't you be able to be open enough to tell them about your past? They become so ashamed about it and they think their fiance is going to leave them or tell everyone...why would you want to marry someone like that in the first place? I just don't get it in the sense that this is supposed to be your life partner. You're supposed to be more open and sharing to them than anyone else. Yet, you're scared of their reaction to this? If the person you're marrying really cared about you, whether you're a virgin or not shouldn't matter. Maya, I completely disagree with that. Your sex life is something that concerns your current partner. I'm not saying go on tangents about how you're not a virgin, but they deserve to know as they are now the one sleeping with you. I totally disagree in concealing things. Hate to break it to you, sweetheart.."Concealing"=Lying. I would NEVER want my future husband to lie to me, and I wouldn't to him .It's worse if you're caught in a lie with someone that's supposed to be most trusted rather than telling them right off the bat Maged, I'm a girl. I would never want to be with a guy I had to keep stuff from. and I'm not getting married anytime soon, so I don't need that Dua, but thanks. [/QUOTE]

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