If you're secretly gay/bi, how do you meet people?

[Bishop'sHallParadise]

I have several friends who are secretly gay/bi, and I was just wondering how do they meet other secretly gay/bi people?

I mean, then just can't flirt with every guy or girl they see, because that person might not be gay/bi and could get offended....or tell everyone.

So how do people who keep their homosexuality/bisexuality a secret meet potential boyfriends and girlfriends?
PS: I've asked my friends this question, but I never get a "straight" answer..........ha! ZING!

 

[LeE$Ha]

simple, they pay attention to who is open with their sexuality, thats how my ex got me bcuz i was very open with it bcuz i was new to the school and didnt care

 

[Rebecca]

I would love to know!!