...please help im clueless? im 21 years old and i've been a "BIG GIRL" all my life. i've tried every kind of diet it seems like. i have went from starving myself to eating 1,200 calories a day and now i take phentermine which is supposed to make you lose 2Lbs. a week and i dont think im going anywhere on them. im around 280Lbs. i just had a baby back in august which didnt help my weight out, and i work at work at wal-mart where i work crazy hours and i dont really have time to eat heathy nor exercise. i need someone to step in and help me out. i want to be fit so i can be healthy for my baby and me. i hope someone can help me out, im so ready to give up 