her boyfriend is, 24 / 7? I'm so glad to see her feeling happier and being with someone who adores her, but I'm genuinely exhausted about hearing every tiny, little aspect of her relationship that has only been going for two weeks. To be fair, I probably have a small amount of jealousy in me because her boyfriend *is* sweet, and I've never been in a 'proper' relationship, but I know even if I had I'd still be annoyed because that's the only thing she cares about right now. She rambles on for hours telling me the same story repeatedly and asking if I know anything about he's said about her (I've known him since pre-school, so we're pretty close) even when I tell her that I have to go or I have nothing left to say. I used to keep my phone on and next to me when I studied because my Dad or Nana might be trying to get through, but I've had to switch it off since I get constant 'update' texts from her even when I tell her that I can't talk.
We went to 'The Point' this afternoon (a place where a lot of people from my school hang out after school) and she told anyone in sight about how awesome everything's going and she pulled out a letter that he wrote to her and read it out in front of everyone. It's great that she's so happy but I don't know if it will last and everyone building her hopes up so much after 2 weeks might eventually crush her. I don't know if I'm being cynical or not, but whatever.
Should I just flat-out tell her that I'm sick of hearing about it? How can I tell her without offending her? I care about her a lot and I'm so happy that she's happy but I'm just annoyed and frustrated about hearing the same thing every freaking day, and every time we speak. I've cancelled plans with her this weekend because I need a break from the constant reminding.
We went to 'The Point' this afternoon (a place where a lot of people from my school hang out after school) and she told anyone in sight about how awesome everything's going and she pulled out a letter that he wrote to her and read it out in front of everyone. It's great that she's so happy but I don't know if it will last and everyone building her hopes up so much after 2 weeks might eventually crush her. I don't know if I'm being cynical or not, but whatever.
Should I just flat-out tell her that I'm sick of hearing about it? How can I tell her without offending her? I care about her a lot and I'm so happy that she's happy but I'm just annoyed and frustrated about hearing the same thing every freaking day, and every time we speak. I've cancelled plans with her this weekend because I need a break from the constant reminding.