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Message: <blockquote data-quote="bluedevil1642" data-source="post: 2645967" data-attributes="member: 135769">Well, you've been chatting and IMing for a while... So that's the first step. Does he seem like someone you'd get along with? Are you interested in him? Is he attractive to you?If all of the above answers are yes, then take it to stage two: the phone. Have text conversations... And even a few calls mixed in. Hearing his voice a few times should help you calm down a little bit.If all still seems well, then go for meeting him somewhere... But make it public, like a mall. Never meet someone online in a bar or something... That has the potential to be dangerous. Unfamiliar environment with an unfamiliar person. For all you know, he could slip you something in your drink and you'll find yourself on the sidewalk the next morning.Just use common sense and be safe...</blockquote>