im such a bad girlfriend..?

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i went to the mall with one of my friends... i thought everything was cool..


my boyfriend called.. [ he's camping with his family]
and i told him im with my family at the mall..
he was crying to me because he misses me.. and he thinks im cheating on him...
i felt so bad.. where he's at.. theres bad reception.. so its hard to get a hold of him... i told him to call me in 2 hours..


but yah.. anyways..
then on our way home to drop me off.. he made a move on me.. we kissed but i pushed him off..



so..

omgg im crying right now.. im sucha bad girlfriend..right? or am i okay??



idk what to do!
 
You obviously didn't give a s--t or you wouldn't have gone in the first place. Now your lying on top of it. But hey! Your not like MARRIED, OR DO YOU CALL THAT OWNED????????????
 
as long as you pushed him back but please avoid those situation when you go out with your friends make sure its not a male by yourself bring a friend along that way you wouldnt lie to your bf an also please tell him the truth the truth is key to any relationship
 
You're a bad girlfriend because he has bad cell phone reception and you pushed him off of you earlier?

First off, stop crying and try not to worry so much. You'll get your chance to explain what happened after he comes back. If it makes you feel better, you can keep trying to get a hold of him.

Second, no, that does not make you a bad girlfriend. Trust me, if that makes you a bad girlfriend, then I've done things to past boyfriends that would qualify as crimes against humanity.

Thirdly, when your guy cries again later (by the sound of it, he will find a reason to in the future), be sympathetic and cheer him up, but make sure that he understands what you're telling him and try to dissolve his reason for crying (be stern if you have to).
 
you shouldn't have kissed him at all. even though you pushed him off you already had the choice of not kissing him in the first place. That really sucks that there isn't really much trustful girls out there no more.
 
Firstly kish read the q properly - she went to the mall with a "friend" and he's the one who made a move and kisssed her.
Second, why would you tell your bf you were at the mall with family, when quite clearly you weren't.
Who do you really want to be with - your bf or your "friend"....
I'd come clean and tell your bf all, or the sh*t will hit the fan when he finds out anyway.......
Stop crying, get your head together and make up your mind....
 
call him and say you're sorry for pushing him away.
:S you sound as upset as he is, just talk about it.
 
It sounds like a guy friend made a move on you. Not your boyfriend right? Well, you did the right thing if you truly pushed him off. If you know that friend, make sure you set him straight and tell him you're in a relationship. Once your boyfriend comes back, maybe some things will get out: so make sure he hears it from you first and the honest truth,before anyone else goes to him. Tell him you lied to him about going to the mall with "your family" but that the whole kiss thing was not on intention. Simply make sure you keep your relationship, and keep away from sneaky guys.!
 
You're not a bad girlfriend. He made the move and you pushed him off. You would have been a bad gf if you kissed him back. The right thing to do is to tell your bf what happened and that you pushed him away.
 
U pushed him off. good job. dont tell your boyfriend. that will just complicate things
 
well he's probly crying to cause u pushed him off so he thinks your cheating on him
 
You aren't ready for a commitment. Just date freely and don't deal with all the drama. Enjoy your youth. Let you boyfriend down easy.
 
You had best tell your boyfriend before someone else does. If that means by phone now, or the instant he gets back in town, do it. Some people aren't happy unless they're making trouble for someone else, & I can almost guarantee that someone will try to get to him before you do. Good Luck & Blessings
 
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