So my sister is already turning 20 in a few months(eldest) and im the youngest of 3 siblings and I seriously think she has NPD.
She is always extremely defensive and always blows up when you say the wrong thing or when you crack jokes that she doesn't like.
When she argues, she is very sarcastic which is something that really sets everyone in the family off and she has a really bad attitude with us, but when she outside the family, she acts perfectly normal and in fact people think she's like an angel or something. She always puts everyone down, but she puts me down the most and I'm getting tired of it. Everyone at home has to deal with her and she's obsessed with what your image has to be and she looks at the world in a different way, as if people are always out to get her. I can tell you that she gets yelling/screaming mad at least twice a week and the victim is always me or my mom which I feel bad for. Her rages on me are sometimes physically violent but most of the time just really loud and honestly it's just unneccessary NOISE in the house.
She thinks she's perfect literally and she always in denial when we say that her anger has a problem
What do I do with her and how should I deal with her?
I know it's long but please take the time to read it. Thanks!
She is always extremely defensive and always blows up when you say the wrong thing or when you crack jokes that she doesn't like.
When she argues, she is very sarcastic which is something that really sets everyone in the family off and she has a really bad attitude with us, but when she outside the family, she acts perfectly normal and in fact people think she's like an angel or something. She always puts everyone down, but she puts me down the most and I'm getting tired of it. Everyone at home has to deal with her and she's obsessed with what your image has to be and she looks at the world in a different way, as if people are always out to get her. I can tell you that she gets yelling/screaming mad at least twice a week and the victim is always me or my mom which I feel bad for. Her rages on me are sometimes physically violent but most of the time just really loud and honestly it's just unneccessary NOISE in the house.
She thinks she's perfect literally and she always in denial when we say that her anger has a problem
What do I do with her and how should I deal with her?
I know it's long but please take the time to read it. Thanks!