Instead of giving him a hard time, and complaining, should I help him

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Katt^^t

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get over her, instead? My bf says he can't get over his ex! I am so getting tired of this! What do I do? He says he can get over her with my help, and that I just need to be patient with him! I'm losing the one thing he's asking me for--patience! Kimberly this, Kimberly that! We used to go here, blah, blah, blah! Kimberly, Kimberly, Kimberly! Always Kimberly! Should I help him get over her? I've tried every single thing I could--nothing helps! I think he still has feelings for her! He's making me feel like I'm just a rebound, or something! I hate playing second fiddle to her!
 
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donyeangel

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Oh no, no, no. Girl I would drop his a$$. You guys must be pretty young. He shouldn't have even gotten in another relationship if he wasn't over his ex. You definately sound like rebound booty. I would get out of that mess, your relationship is to benefit him and only him, you have no security in the relationship. If he's that caught up on his ex, then he'd totally drop you for her, if she just said the word. He's too wraped around another womans finger to be in your corner. Don't play in his game, some guys would use that kind of stuff to use you.

First you're doing his chores because Kimberly used to do them, then you're having sex with him everyday at 10:15, because that's what Kimberly used to do. He really doesn't care about you if he's comparing you to her, making you feel like your not measuring up. He's a loser, you should drop him. Good Luck!!!
 
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Rocky d

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Come on, Kat! Help the guy get over her! He's been through a lot with her! I mean, you gotta understand they went out for three years! That's gonna be hard for him to forget! If I were you, I'd give him the BOTD!

-Rock
 
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