Instead of giving him a hard time, and complaining, should I help him

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Katt^^t

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get over her, instead? My bf says he can't get over his ex! I am so getting tired of this! What do I do? He says he can get over her with my help, and that I just need to be patient with him! I'm losing the one thing he's asking me for--patience! Kimberly this, Kimberly that! We used to go here, blah, blah, blah! Kimberly, Kimberly, Kimberly! Always Kimberly! Should I help him get over her? I've tried every single thing I could--nothing helps! I think he still has feelings for her! He's making me feel like I'm just a rebound, or something! I hate playing second fiddle to her!
 
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NENA

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Best thing to do is talk to him and let him know that you understand that he wants to get over his ex, and explain to him how you have been trying to do just that. However, in order for you to help him he needs to help you too. Yeah its okay to once in a while think of her but that's why you're there to fill that void. Let him know that you are willing to be there through anything but that if he continues with this getting over ex thing than you're gonna have to go your separate ways. Its hard at first but that's life and he has to move again that's why he has you. take care..
 
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