Is he even interested anymore? ?

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carlyy

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Long story short, this guy that I had a thing with 8th grade and freshman year died off and we barely talk now. before we used to talk like 24/7. and it was all the time.
but now junior prom is coming up and I would really want to go with him, but i'm not sure if he's going to ask me...and I may even still have some feelings for him?
every time I try to text him again our conversation dies and he doesn't try to make the conversation like go for a while..I usually do most of the talking. any help to try and get him to know I want to go to prom with him and maybe get him interested again?
 
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JohnBird

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You have to ask him if he still has feelings for you. You have to be direct. Even though your texting conversations die doesn't mean he's uninterested, talk to him in person and the conversation will be much better i promise you.
 
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teensheen

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It sounds like he may have lost interest. Maybe you should try moving on to another guy instead of keeping your hopes pinned on him. And a new guy could get him jealous and give you two something new to talk about. You could even try outright asking him if he's going to the prom or planning on asking anyone to it, but I wouldn't try to wait on him to ask you to prom unless his interest spikes back up all of a sudden.
 
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Victoria

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First of all if a guy isnt interested in you then its very obvious... seriously...this guy doesnt like u or wants to go back with u. I know...i know reality hurts but it will hurt more if u keep on insisting and him telling it to ur face. I've learned my lesson the hard way.. :( it wasnt easy but for your own good i think u should just move on like he has. But if u do want to try then just write him a letter or say it to him that u want to go to prom with him and see what he says. good luck!
 
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Mado1

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being yourself is definitely key. also, try to bring back memories of eight grade and freshman year of what you guys did together and had fun with it. insert it into conversations with him and hopefully he'll open up more. he may be shy at trying to bring back what you guys had before. if these things don't work then maybe he's not the guy for you and you'll find someone else better worthy of you.

Hope this helps!!! :)
 
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Mado1

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being yourself is definitely key. also, try to bring back memories of eight grade and freshman year of what you guys did together and had fun with it. insert it into conversations with him and hopefully he'll open up more. he may be shy at trying to bring back what you guys had before. if these things don't work then maybe he's not the guy for you and you'll find someone else better worthy of you.

Hope this helps!!! :)
 
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