Is he just shy or not interested?

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I'm a fairly bold girl, so I confessed to this guy and asked him out, and he said 'when we know each other more, then yeah sure'. so i took that as an invitation to talk to him more, so i do.

it has been one week since the confession, and i've been saying hi and making small talk and he seems fine with it. the thing is, when i don't approach him, he just stays where he is (with his friends) and sneak glances at me, and when i approach him, he doesn't talk much but replies to everything i say.

and i can't tell if he's shy or just not interested because he doesn't talk to girls much, so i can't observe his actions around other girls, but he's very outgoing with his guy friends. help please!
 
Hmm,tough to say. Is he making any attempts to talk to YOU?
Why don't you try avoiding him for a while until he talks to you,
i love this saying "we all want what we can't have." in other words, the more he thinks he can't have you,the more he is going to want you!
Good luck <3
 
It seems like he is shy back off and see what he does. Don't stress about it because if you bring stress into the relationship it will make it worse.
 
He's definitely interested. I once dated a shy guy, and our relationship began in a similar fashion. He wouldn't talk much, but he would respond to me, he would sneak glances here and there. Being bold myself, I found that trying to move too quickly freaked him out and pushed him away. Ultimately, I backed off a little and gave him his space, but still flirted with him here and there, letting my personality shine through bit by bit. The thing with shy guys is that they don't have the cobfidence of normal person, obviously. When you give bits often, they eventually become confortable enough to be around you and move forward. Just give him time, but dont let him forget you. He'll soon crawl towards you.
 
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