I have been seeing this guy for just less than 4 months. He is 25 and I am 17 (yes, i know the age gap before anyone pulls it up). I work with him and he is my manager but it is nothing serious so it isn't a problem. Basically, he does have a girlfriend who he hardly ever sees because she is at uni. About a month ago, I decided to sleep with him (it was my first time). Since about 2 weeks ago, he calls me less, texts me less etc. which is unlike him because he always used to be the one chasing me. What shall I do, I really like him and have strong feelings so I don't want to just walk away from this. How can I get it back to how it was without coming across too eager/desperate?! Please please please help me, I'm really upset about all of this 