Is it harder to be bisexual than homo or strait?

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I truly think I am bisexual, but the media and everyone I know seems to think that this can not be. Most people I know think once someone says they are bi they will eventually go gay. I feel that once you tell someone you are bisexual they lable you as gay. It's sooooo hard to be a bisexual. I think people have the misconception that it is totally false. People have convinced me that being bi is impossible. I am scared to be with men because I feel society will only let me be with men. I am scared to be with women because they may know I have attraction to men and it will ruin our relationship. I do not want to live without either. There is no hope for people like me. We are more of a rarity then homosexuals. I hope to find someone who understands some day. I love people!
I wish I could live in a world where strait and gays wouldnt care if you liked both. I could be me and not care!
 
I'm bisexual... my friend Kyle is a guy and he is bisexual. He is married to a woman but has dated men in the past. Neither of us have a problem with our sexuality. We know who we are. Who cares what anyone else thinks? Date whoever you feel attracted to no matter the sex, and then take it from there....
 
I think you'll find a whole lot of people believe that the entire world is bisexual. Imagine a scale from 1-10 where 1 means you're attracted to men and 10 to women. People will fall somewhere along this line. Someone that we call straight will be around the 1 or the 10 depending on what sex they are. Bisexuals could fall anywhere between 3 and 8, attracted more to one sex than the other or attracted to both sexes equally.

This isn't a new idea and there are tons of people who think this could be the case.
 
i know what you mean.
i think bisexuals have it 'harder' because you get judgement from both sexualities. ive been denied by lesbians for having been with a man before and there are so many people that'll question and pester me for being bisexual because they believe it's impossible. there are also the homosexuals who believe t hat all bisexuals are bi just for the trend. and to be honest, there are a lot of people nowadays pretending to be bi, but there are also some that truly are bi. bisexuals get the judgement from homophobics and the very uptight homosexuals. also, this isnt true for all bisexuals, but for me, it harder to be with a lesbian girl because we usually dont click as well as i do with bisexuals.
 
i'm bisexual, six of my guy friends are bi and three of my girlfriends are, look at it this way more options!
 
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