Is it okay not to meet the mother of my fiance's child?

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burtongrl

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She is remarried and has children with her husband and has no interest in meeting me so I don't have to meet her right? I just don't want to go through the whole jealousy thing... like my fiance used to you know what with her and is she prettier than me ect. Is it okay to just not do the whole meet and greet? My fiance is okay with me never having to meet her, I don't want to and she doesn't care. Is that bad? I think its perfectly fine. Just wondering what the common thought is.
 
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EwinMcFroserbite

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Yea that's totally fine and normal. But u might have to meet her one day which will prolly happen if u plan to marry this guy and be with him at school functions, graduation etc. It will be awkward and then everyone will move on. No biggie and def don't worry. Ur husband loves u and they clearly didn't work out for a reason. Take care and good luck.
 
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Chadwickdurbins

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No you don't have to meet her. As long as there is no animosity towards each other and the kid is taken care of who cares. That's his problem not yours and he's not with her for a reason so you don't have to be jealous.
 
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