ok so I got with my boyfriend about 3 weeks after Halloween, everything was going great although I always was kind of worried that it was only good because we hadn’t dated very long before deciding to get together, we dated for like a month until he asked me to be his gf, I said yes of course cuz he treated me like a princess. He would take me out wherever or whenever I wanted. He would surprise me with flowers and candy. I just adored him and so did my family, oh and another thing is that im 17 and he is 20. I met him through my brother who is nineteen. Anyways I just loved the attention! He took me places my parents never did, museums, restaurants ive always wanted to visit. After a while I started to realize our relationship is based off of a lot of materialistic things, maybe it was the places I went to or the things he bought me that made me like him. And to be honest he wasn’t the most physically attractive. I began to lose interest after a while. he was just around too often. He was with me from after school till the time I fell asleep. Literally, he would stay and tuck me in until I was fully asleep. I mean yes it was cute but I got really annoyed. I needed space and I told him that I was losing the chemistry. So we broke up about two weeks ago. He would beg me almost everyday to take him back that I needed to try and to give it another shot. Sooo I finally just said oh what the hell ok fine..maybe something will change now that we hadn’t talked for a while. so weve been together for a few days..still..nothing. I mean I really want things to work, because hes a really good person. But something is just holding me back..is it possible to somehow get back the chemistry we once had?