How to get out of the boring rut in a marriage. I know my husbands bored with things and possibly on the verge of cheating how do I save us before it's to late. How can I keep him faithful for just a few more weeks til I can have sex again (just had a new baby and have the 6 weeks no sex) It's been over 4 months since we've had sex. I don't want to point any fingers or to say that's not how it's supposed to be or say anybodies in the wrong that's not gonna save my marriage.