Is it reasonable for your loved one to go through your gadgets?

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...he wants to check my laptop, blackberry, go through my phone logs, even call numbers that are unfamiliar. he also makes comments about what I wear (i.e v-necks and other tops that are a bit tight), has his own opinions about my best friend, talks bad about any male figure in my life and, according to him, every man out there is either hitting on or wants to shag me.
(yes, I am an adult and he does not pay for anything in my life and has his own place)
 
A male friend of his needs to convince him to dump you (That shouldn't be hard. He obviously trusts you about as far as he can throw a building).

That way, you both get out of this without broken bones and restraining orders.
 
If it bothers you ask him to stop. If he doesn't, it's disrespectful. Change you passwords and lock everything down.

Personally, it wouldn't bother me.

There also a few tricks you can have fun with. If he starts bashing a guy, then agree with him on everything. If he still keeps it up, you can say something like "All we ever talk about is *Bashed Guy*, and that's boring." Or you can comment that you aren't interested in discussing *Bashed Guy*, but he might have a thing for him because he can't stop talking about *Bashed Guy*.

He's entitled to his own opinion, just as you are entitled to yours.

He does seem to be entering areas where is is becoming controlling, so if he gets worse it may be time to kiss this one good-bye.
 
NONONONONONO

get out of that relationship now! This is the start of an abusive relationship. He is showing controlling tendencies and does not trust you. This could lead to baaaad stuff hun!
 
That's just stupid.... Take your gadgets and shove them up his ass. Then he can go through them all he wants.
 
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