A year ago, I had been talking to a person that was interested in meeting me for sex. We had made plans on meeting, but instead of meeting each other they got in contact with my significant other and told them about our plans. Yes, I had talked to this person, but I never had it in my head that I would actually do it. I just wanted someone to "want" me in that way, not that I really wanted to actually have sex with them. My question is: do you consider it infidelity if your significant other never met with this person.