Is it true that with Eharmony, you can't specify the physical traits you...

[LabattJones]

...prefer in your match? My friend said she signed up, but it matches you based on personality traits and it doesn't factor in how people look physically at all. That's all good in an ideal world, but in the real world physical attraction matters at least somewhat.

 

[Marie]

Chemistry is the missing sex-factor. You have to be physically attracted to a partner otherwise they are a friend.

 

[Lucky]

Yeah, it's true. I used them some years back and met up with two of my top listings. Let me say that at least from what I experienced, there was absolutely no physical chemistry. They became people I can chat with online and relate stories to, but I never did get a good dating experience from there.

 

[DerekAshley]

Use plenty of fish instead.

The reality of human sexual relations is that the more beautiful the person, the more sexual partners they have the potential of finding. I am hot, and taken, and it's just a reality.

That eharmony won't allow physical attributes in a search is just bizarre. POF is free and you can search how you want. I did it for about 8 months and met hundreds (no exaggeration) of girls. All it cost me was time...it got to be a full time job to keep up.