...find out he's gay? My ex husband met a man a few months back, + is now in his first gay relationship, and they have since moved in together. Problem is we have a 7yr old son together (shared custody), and they do not agree they should hide their relationship as apparently it's all very natural. He argues that our son will accept him no matter what.. i agree but at what price? Our son is doing well at school again having been very distracted for 2 years after our split up.. i think this revelation would be a disaster to his education and am hoping i can get some of your thoughts on this situation.