Is it wrong of me to judge the whole relationship on the first kiss?

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So pretty much from the last 3 girls I've almost started dating, I've ended it after the first kiss for if I dont feel something then I stop the relationship. Like I could have had some really successful relationships but ended it from the kiss.

Is it wrong of me? I judge the whole rest of the relationship from the kiss. Like I just earlier kissed a girl I've started to see I guess but now I'm like eh.

Any ideas? I also think I have some commitment issues from being hurt in the past.

Thank you
 
Blame it on commitment issues then. Not a kiss. People are people and may have been very nervous about the first kiss with you. You have to give a person a chance at least. Instead of the fist kiss try looking at the second. They may be a bit less nervous and also a bit more time in between to get to know each other and feel more comfy together. Most of us have been hurt before. Everyone is different. Experience life but protect yourself to a certain point only. Gotta let go at some point. You gotta do what you gotta do but if you keep going that way then you may miss the best thing that could ever happen to you.
 
"Like I could have had some really successful relationships but ended it from the kiss."

I think you just answered yourself.
 
Kiss is not the measurement for a better relationship. Better to take easy for a while, chose only one girl then spend some time with her or bitter to know her in short.

The past is not also connected to your future relationship but it can change you. Try to remove this attitude and go forward for much better relationship. It's not bad to give your trust again.

Hope all this works...!!!
 
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