okay Im trying to figure out how to explain this with out sounding stupid but my previous relationship was abusive it lasted for about three years. I was dumb, okay so this current boyfriends I have now, we been together for 5 months and something about him kind of rubs me the wrong way. He was soo nice and such a charmer when we were friends (just like my previous bf)and just starting to date and then overtime i started noticing his temper was quick, he is kind of a hot heat but a little more calmer than my previous bf. I started to notice me walking on eggshells with him just to keep him from getting angry and ignoring me, him blaming me for things that aren't my fault and yelling and me for things that aren't my fault and taking his anger out on me ( just like my previous boyfriend.) He says sorry for these things and says things like " I don't think im the guy you need, you don't deserve this, me taking me anger out on you" I feel bad when he says this and I console him and tell him everything is okay and that I know his is capable of doing better but then he just does it all over again. My ex bf told me he would never put his hands on a female and never have but i guess I was different, my bf now says the same and im scared because I don't know what to believe! They are both so similar, sweet at times bitter for no reason at times. I also noticed other silly things like they have the same exact birthday same year and everything and both born in the same state. Ughhh idk im getting paranoid, its driving me crazy! He is just so sweet at times telling me that Im the best thing that has happened to him all year and that I make him happy. Its just hard to leave him alone.