but, is online dating good? Is online dating worth a try. I live in the capital of my state with about 100,000 people that live here. I do go to the bars and will get hit on sometimes by girls there. Sometimes even the bartender will hit on me. She will say something like "your so quite" then my next beer is for free. Its happened to me at different bars. I've had girls sitting next to me asking me what my name is. I'm not even talking to them they just start talking to me. I don't know anyone here where I live so i'm usually at some bar or club. This is a big college town so its easy to meet people. I here that usually a bar isn't the best place but, its better then online dating I think. You can just pick up a better vibe off of that person then online. So if a guy can get girls in real life should he try online dating? I just don't know many people where I live right now and i'm looking to start dating. Should I continue what i'm doing every weekend. Just go out to the right bars to meet people. You can meet someone at a bar or club. I think you just have to get to know them.