I was just curious if there was a self defence that's not ay certain type of style, I've tried martial arts, but I just didn't feel it. I just want to do it as a hobby really. Something to do. I do not wish to join boxing, or kick boxing either.
Okay... I'm confused. Martial arts are literally the arts of war or fighting. Thus any fighting technique or style you train in will be martial arts. Thus no, there is no self defense that isn't martial arts. If you don't want anything specific, then why not just google local schools and go check them out. From there just find a school you like that isn't a McDojo.