...guy talk? I came across something that my fiance had written to his friend - "We're in Koh Samui right now, it's like the Vegas of Thailand. There are so many chicks here just waiting to be pounced. There are like 50 year-old men walking around with 16 year old chicks. Makes me want to be single again... for an hour at least."
This is something he wrote just a couple months ago while we were on a trip together. We're engaged, and have been dating for about 4 years. What makes a comment like this even worse is that he's never in the mood for sex, and it used to be a big issue between us before I started taking Fluoxitine (which lessens your sex drive, so I don't really ask for it as much anymore). He's been on Propecia since he was 20 (he's in his early 30s now), and that might be part of the sex-drive problem. However, a comment like "there are chicks here just waiting to be pounded... wish I were single again... if even for an hour" makes me think that he does have a sex drive and has had one all along, just not for me. He is extremely affectionate with me and tells me he loves me all the time, he's just never been all that sexual with me. On average, we have sex about once a week, sometimes once every two weeks. I know I'm not bad looking, I get compliments from men all the time, and my guy friends always say that their friends ask about me when they meet me. But, I think that maybe my fiance has a Modonna/Whore syndrome or is just over me sexually? And maybe that happened as soon as we became serious? p.s. and trust me, I've tried the lingerie thing many times, and toys, etc. He used to get so upset that I'm basically not allowed to wear lingerie anymore, it puts too much pressure on him. I basically just want to know, do all guys talk like this but wouldn't really act on it if given the chance? Or if he went to Thailand with a few of his buddies, is there a good chance that he'd have sex with a prostitute or someone he met, no matter how happy he is with me, or how much he loves me? What do you think?
This is something he wrote just a couple months ago while we were on a trip together. We're engaged, and have been dating for about 4 years. What makes a comment like this even worse is that he's never in the mood for sex, and it used to be a big issue between us before I started taking Fluoxitine (which lessens your sex drive, so I don't really ask for it as much anymore). He's been on Propecia since he was 20 (he's in his early 30s now), and that might be part of the sex-drive problem. However, a comment like "there are chicks here just waiting to be pounded... wish I were single again... if even for an hour" makes me think that he does have a sex drive and has had one all along, just not for me. He is extremely affectionate with me and tells me he loves me all the time, he's just never been all that sexual with me. On average, we have sex about once a week, sometimes once every two weeks. I know I'm not bad looking, I get compliments from men all the time, and my guy friends always say that their friends ask about me when they meet me. But, I think that maybe my fiance has a Modonna/Whore syndrome or is just over me sexually? And maybe that happened as soon as we became serious? p.s. and trust me, I've tried the lingerie thing many times, and toys, etc. He used to get so upset that I'm basically not allowed to wear lingerie anymore, it puts too much pressure on him. I basically just want to know, do all guys talk like this but wouldn't really act on it if given the chance? Or if he went to Thailand with a few of his buddies, is there a good chance that he'd have sex with a prostitute or someone he met, no matter how happy he is with me, or how much he loves me? What do you think?