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<blockquote data-quote="Tabo" data-source="post: 1551419" data-attributes="member: 482750">Tell him what you told us.&nbsp; You don&#039;t mind game playing but, you want him to cut back a little.&nbsp; It&#039;s true you can&#039;t pause online games...ok!...but, he can stop after like 20mins each round.&nbsp; Ask him to spend 30mins a night just together talking.&nbsp; That&#039;s like 1 game round!&nbsp; Ask him to invest this time to talk to each other and what&#039;s going on.&nbsp; He is probably feeling like once he&#039;s a dad he will have no time to do these things.&nbsp; I know gaming can get addictive and have passed days where time flew.&nbsp; Talk to him about how you feel and ask him to do the same.&nbsp; Spend time w/ physical contact to reconnect because that is important in relationships.&nbsp; Spend a little time directly talking about the baby.&nbsp; He is probably nervous but, if you gradually introduce the idea and gradually take him off the games then you should be ok.&nbsp; If not then just tell him no more and get responsible.&nbsp; lolGood luck!!</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Tabo, post: 1551419, member: 482750"] Tell him what you told us. You don't mind game playing but, you want him to cut back a little. It's true you can't pause online games...ok!...but, he can stop after like 20mins each round. Ask him to spend 30mins a night just together talking. That's like 1 game round! Ask him to invest this time to talk to each other and what's going on. He is probably feeling like once he's a dad he will have no time to do these things. I know gaming can get addictive and have passed days where time flew. Talk to him about how you feel and ask him to do the same. Spend time w/ physical contact to reconnect because that is important in relationships. Spend a little time directly talking about the baby. He is probably nervous but, if you gradually introduce the idea and gradually take him off the games then you should be ok. If not then just tell him no more and get responsible. lol Good luck!! [/QUOTE]

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