IS THIS RELATIONSHIP WORTH FIGHTING FOR?

Divalicous25

New member
I met this guy 6 months ago (we work for the same company). Handsome and a real gentleman, he asked me out and I told him that I have a reputation to maintain so I dont want drama nor public affection at work. He told me that his mission is to make me happy and he wants to change my perception about love and relationships because I have been hurt before. He took me out, spent time everyday during lunch, spoke over the phone everyday, he made me laugh and I fell madly in love with him. A month ago he came over to my place as I cooked for him as it was his Birthday. I asked him why he switches his phone off when he is with me, he got angry and then he decided to leave. His reaction shocked me and He he kept his phone off the whole weekend. We spent over a week without talking and I was hurting all that time. I recently found out from a friend that he is seeing another girl at work (I was hurt) and I did not ask him about it as we havent been talking. I saw them walking together after work yesterday and when he saw me he turned the opposite direction. I sent him a text saying "I know about her, Relax" and he did not respond. I DONT KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS, I AM angry and bitter. Should I send the other girl pictures of me and him so she can see what has been going on because by the sounds of this this girl has been with him way longer than me. What should I do guys?
 

Emily1

Active member
Do nothing it hurts and it sucks but you have to watch out for you and you do not need him if he is not looking for the same commitment you are. If you push it further and start sending pictures and such it will just make work dramatic and hard. At work be professional talk to him when you have to for work and be curious you don't have to like him but you do have to respect the work place. And getting over a broken heart sucks completely but it's not worth risking your job and pride over a stupid man
 
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