Isn't it contradictory how some will complain about "getting kicked out...

[DarwingotnastyontheBeagle]

...of the house" while others will...? ...complain about "wanting move out of the house"?

Is the latter the same as the other, except the parents called their bluff?

 

[Sophie]

I'm guessing "the latter is not the same as other." What you describe is not contradictory at all. People have different preferences and desires based on their situations.