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<blockquote data-quote="mAva&amp;#039;sMommym" data-source="post: 1667139" data-attributes="member: 641694">I am 22 years old and I have a sister who is 2 years older than me. Since she was 15 she has done drugs, lie, steal and cheat people including me. We didn&#039;t talk for 2 years because she stole our mortgage money and got trashed at our house. There are many other instances before this. She even threw me a birthday party, got so drunk, and kicked me out at 3am. Those are just a couple of instances to explain her character. My family is the type of people to just &quot;sweep everything under the rug&quot; and pretend like nothing happened. They actually shunned me because I didn&#039;t want her in my house anymore. I didn&#039;t want her at my Baby Shower because I was worried about her stealing from my In Laws.I had a baby in May 2008 and I had a change of heart. I decided to put it behind me even though she still denies ever stealing from me. It took a lot of persuading my hubby to ever let her come over. Well after a while, he gave in because he knew I wanted to try and have a relationship with her. Things were good between us for a few months until her old ways started up again. She was staying with us for a few weeks and not paying for groceries, taking over the computer, and walking around here like she owned the place and even helped herself to my closet and dresser. Then I started noticing things started going missing again. My gold earrings, my expensive dress pants and even crest whitestrips. I confronted her over the phone and she freaked out at me and told me she &quot;has money and doesn&#039;t need my things&quot; which is the same excuse she used about the mortgage money.Another horrible thing is that she is a prostitute. She has no respect for herself and tells everyone she works at a bar but I know different.&nbsp; I found a notebook that is full of phone numbers and work history. &quot;John- Oral $80&quot; All her friends are older men who throw money at her. Again, my parents choose to believe otherwise.&nbsp; She is famous for denial, denial, denial.I have been avoiding her phone calls for the last month now because she pretends like nothing happened which is not ok with me. My Mom just called me and told me she spoke to my sister and that she &quot;doesn&#039;t care that I am mad at her and just wants to see my daughter.&quot; My daughter is 10 months old and a part of me doesn&#039;t want to keep her away from her Aunt but another part of me doesn&#039;t want my daughter around such a sick individual. I don&#039;t know what to do. I feel like I am making the right decision but my lunatic parents are trying to make me feel bad. I really don&#039;t care anymore because I have given her so many chances.My parents are telling me to pretty much get over it because we are &quot;sisters&quot; and it infuriates me like never before. Am I wrong or right?I am so sorry this is so long but I really need to get this out.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="mAva'sMommym, post: 1667139, member: 641694"] I am 22 years old and I have a sister who is 2 years older than me. Since she was 15 she has done drugs, lie, steal and cheat people including me. We didn't talk for 2 years because she stole our mortgage money and got trashed at our house. There are many other instances before this. She even threw me a birthday party, got so drunk, and kicked me out at 3am. Those are just a couple of instances to explain her character. My family is the type of people to just "sweep everything under the rug" and pretend like nothing happened. They actually shunned me because I didn't want her in my house anymore. I didn't want her at my Baby Shower because I was worried about her stealing from my In Laws. I had a baby in May 2008 and I had a change of heart. I decided to put it behind me even though she still denies ever stealing from me. It took a lot of persuading my hubby to ever let her come over. Well after a while, he gave in because he knew I wanted to try and have a relationship with her. Things were good between us for a few months until her old ways started up again. She was staying with us for a few weeks and not paying for groceries, taking over the computer, and walking around here like she owned the place and even helped herself to my closet and dresser. Then I started noticing things started going missing again. My gold earrings, my expensive dress pants and even crest whitestrips. I confronted her over the phone and she freaked out at me and told me she "has money and doesn't need my things" which is the same excuse she used about the mortgage money. Another horrible thing is that she is a prostitute. She has no respect for herself and tells everyone she works at a bar but I know different. I found a notebook that is full of phone numbers and work history. "John- Oral $80" All her friends are older men who throw money at her. Again, my parents choose to believe otherwise. She is famous for denial, denial, denial. I have been avoiding her phone calls for the last month now because she pretends like nothing happened which is not ok with me. My Mom just called me and told me she spoke to my sister and that she "doesn't care that I am mad at her and just wants to see my daughter." My daughter is 10 months old and a part of me doesn't want to keep her away from her Aunt but another part of me doesn't want my daughter around such a sick individual. I don't know what to do. I feel like I am making the right decision but my lunatic parents are trying to make me feel bad. I really don't care anymore because I have given her so many chances. My parents are telling me to pretty much get over it because we are "sisters" and it infuriates me like never before. Am I wrong or right? I am so sorry this is so long but I really need to get this out. [/QUOTE]

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