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<blockquote data-quote="Richal" data-source="post: 1694324" data-attributes="member: 317856">Based on my experience in this area (and boy do I have it), it seems to me that you pretty much like girls.&nbsp; In fact I&#039;m almost positive you like girls from what you tell us, but you might still like guys, I can&#039;t say for sure on that one.&nbsp; As to whether you have a chance with your bff, that&#039;s trickier.&nbsp; When you&#039;re crazy about someone, you tend to look at the smallest details as signs that the other might feel the same.&nbsp; Granted, these might be genuine signs that they do, but they just as easily may not.&nbsp; To me it sounds like your friend has a higher chance of potentially liking you back than was my experience.&nbsp; I was always given &quot;hints&quot; that if I told her I was into her, she would ditch me, even possibly if she knew I was gay (which didn&#039;t turn out to be the case, luckily - she realized her ridiculousness in that one I think, and even probably knows I was way into her).I know you said not to tell you to ask her, but...&nbsp; Ask her.&nbsp; Do your subtle thing.&nbsp; You know how to bring things up with her in the way you&#039;ll both be most comfortable.&nbsp; You don&#039;t have to admit your feelings for her, even - just tell her in general that you have a pretty good idea that you don&#039;t like guys (if you decide this of course).</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Richal, post: 1694324, member: 317856"] Based on my experience in this area (and boy do I have it), it seems to me that you pretty much like girls. In fact I'm almost positive you like girls from what you tell us, but you might still like guys, I can't say for sure on that one. As to whether you have a chance with your bff, that's trickier. When you're crazy about someone, you tend to look at the smallest details as signs that the other might feel the same. Granted, these might be genuine signs that they do, but they just as easily may not. To me it sounds like your friend has a higher chance of potentially liking you back than was my experience. I was always given "hints" that if I told her I was into her, she would ditch me, even possibly if she knew I was gay (which didn't turn out to be the case, luckily - she realized her ridiculousness in that one I think, and even probably knows I was way into her). I know you said not to tell you to ask her, but... Ask her. Do your subtle thing. You know how to bring things up with her in the way you'll both be most comfortable. You don't have to admit your feelings for her, even - just tell her in general that you have a pretty good idea that you don't like guys (if you decide this of course). [/QUOTE]

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