Ive been with my gf for over 3 years and now she tells me she thinks were too...

ViJa

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...different to have a future...? i love her very much but i dont know what to do to show her that i want to spend the rest of my life with her and only her
 
Im really sorry about what happen but you have to accept the truth, if you really love someone you would be happy for them that they will meet another person that would make them happy, I know its painful but that what true love is really is. Would you want to hold her back and be with you if she is not happy, that would be selfish, it would not be nice to her or you because while your together she does not love you in the same way. Be happy that she has the courage to tell you the truth instead of leaving it and wasting both of your time. You should be happy that she didn't lie to you. It would be painful, but the pain will soon ease, if you really love her and think that you would never forget her, that's fine, you don't need to forget but have to accept the truth that she does NOT love you anymore, and the pain will soon ease, time will help you heal and you'll be dealing with the pain in your own way - you will soon find out how. Good luck, Im dealing with the same thing as you but mine is not breaking up.. he passed away from me... It is still really painful to me but it got better, not 100% obviously but better than when it first happen...

If you need anyone to talk, email me Im happy to talk, we're in the same boat. Remember your not alone.
 
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