Just needed to vent, cause this is just ridiculous?

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I don't know, I'm just losing my self confidence in both my family and myself.
Why doesn't anyone believe me, I'm not a big disappointment.
My little sister keeps on telling my mom lies about me, saying that I'm dishonest and rude.
But I'm not. My mom doesn't believe me however, so she gets all naggy and stuff. She really doesn't care about me as much as she does for my little sister.

I really don't want to sit in the same room as these guys, I really don't.
Ever since my mom said she was always disappointed in me, I started flunking in school. i didn't even have B's or C's. I had all straight A's.

I can't believe something like this can stress me out.
 
Sorry you are going through this. Please speak with your school counselor to help you deal with this. If your family doesn't believe in you then you need to learn to believe in yourself. Succeed in life because you want to. Do it for yourself so you can
show your family how wrong they were about you. Once you get out on your own you
don't have to have anything more to do with them. Have you tried telling your family how hurtful they are to you?
 
dont worry it happen in everyone life .Do your work sincerely and dont think result .After some time your image will improve autometically .Dont worry be happy.
 
I am so sorry you are feeling like that. I have an I idea. First off, I would ignore whatever you mom is doing that makes you feel like your self confidence is going downhill. I would seek out trusted adults in your life who you love and who motivated you and make you feel awesome! These adults could be your teacher, neighbor, counselor, relatives, your best friend's mom or dad etc. They would be more than willing to play the "mom" role for you. Continue to do your best in everything that you do, because that makes you feel great, doesn't it? When you keep reaching to your fullest potential it will not only be easy to recognize by your mother, but more importantly, you'll feel unstoppable! And if you feel you need to tell your family what you just told us, don't hesitate! Your an important member of the family just like the rest of them and you need to be heard! Call a family meeting! Once they hear your concerns thy should straighten up.

Good luck!
 
i'm sorry for you, but your sister seems to be great at lying though. sometimes moms and dads watch too much of tv regarding adolescents getting spoiled and also compare their kids with their own adolescence and are hence filled with preconceptions. in these circumstances, when your sister encourages those preconceptions of your mum, she believes in them. it will fade away with time, but you need to work hard on letting your mum know you are a "good boy". how you do it depends on your daily life and how things are for you in your life, hence cant be suggested. basically, try and make your mom know you better, let her into your life more, and make her realize the real you.
 
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