Knowing whether you're gay/lesbian or bisexual?

Kirsten

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I asked a somewhat similar question earlier, but realized it's not what I wanted to ask. So here it is.

I've never been in a relationship with a girl, but I've wanted to. I've just never acted on it. My relationships with guys were questionable. I would hold hands and cuddle but I never wanted to kiss them or anything. And when I thought it was wierd, I dumped them. I still think guys are cute and everything - but no desire to be intimate with them?

I'm not sure if I'm bi, or if I'm gay (well lesbian, but gay sounds less formal) and it's not something that's killing me. It's just something I've been reflecting on lately. Whether I've been dating guys but was never really interested. All of my relationships with guys were really just really strong friendships. And everyone around would be like, "You seem more like friends than a couple."

Just wondering what you'd think based of of my experiences? Not asking for a finalized answer, as I said it's not killing me to know, but it would be nice to get some opinions.
And even though I was never in a "relationship" with a girl I have kissed a girl, and wanted to kiss her. I just thought it was weird because I never felt that with the guys I had relationships with.
 
I think it is quite possible that you are lesbian or bi. Maybe try a relationship with another girl to see how it compares.
 
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