I haven't come out but I met a lesbian online, and she seemed like a nice person, so I sent her a message, but she never replied. I gave up and left her alone, but whenever I go online and check my list of visitors it shows that she keeps viewing my profile. It's either that or they only reply once or twice and eventually reject me and stop replying... But keep viewing my profile or turn out to be pansexual/transsexual/bisexual/bicurious and lie they're gay on their profile to get women and they're purely sexual towards me. This keeps happening. It's even harder to find them outside cause my country's excessively homophobic, they're hiding so much that I besides a gut feeling telling me they could be gay, I've stopped acting on my feelings cause I really dunno what to look for anymore. Help?