I've been discussing an issue with my mate about setting boundaries to behaviour when out clubbing. He believes it's perfectly fine to let your girlfriend dance with other guys.
I'm a bit more traditional in my thinking and worry about it sending out the wrong message if my girl is dancing with strangers - just the thought of some guy getting off over my gf. I think it's fine to dance with guys that we know eg. friends. But as for strangers, it's pushing it a bit too far.
Whilst on that topic, my gf is convinced I should be dancing with other girls - according to her 'learning how to charm others'. I've told her that even though she's my first gf, it should be fine for me to only dance with her and her friends (and not strangers) if I'm happy in the relationship and committed to her. I tried out dancing with another girl that I liked the look of but couldn't keep going considering my gf is right there plus it didn't feel right considering we are meant to be in a serious relationship. Perhaps I'm too traditional??
She also occassionally suggests that one day we should go together to visit a 'massage parlour' - to which I've replied in disgust because there's no way I'll visit what is effectively a prostitute. Told her it's my body and I'll decide what's right for me and she should respect my decision. I would never do it and if I'm happy with her, then I don't need to look elsewhere (I'd end the relationship before moving on).
I'm a bit more traditional in my thinking and worry about it sending out the wrong message if my girl is dancing with strangers - just the thought of some guy getting off over my gf. I think it's fine to dance with guys that we know eg. friends. But as for strangers, it's pushing it a bit too far.
Whilst on that topic, my gf is convinced I should be dancing with other girls - according to her 'learning how to charm others'. I've told her that even though she's my first gf, it should be fine for me to only dance with her and her friends (and not strangers) if I'm happy in the relationship and committed to her. I tried out dancing with another girl that I liked the look of but couldn't keep going considering my gf is right there plus it didn't feel right considering we are meant to be in a serious relationship. Perhaps I'm too traditional??
She also occassionally suggests that one day we should go together to visit a 'massage parlour' - to which I've replied in disgust because there's no way I'll visit what is effectively a prostitute. Told her it's my body and I'll decide what's right for me and she should respect my decision. I would never do it and if I'm happy with her, then I don't need to look elsewhere (I'd end the relationship before moving on).