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day. Should I be worried? I live with my boyfriend of 3 years, and I accidentally discovered that he watches porn on his smartphone constantly. The first few months he had this smartphone he would let me play around with it, and if I asked him to use it he'd tell me, "Of course, Beautiful, you don't even need to ask." Then, about a year ish ago he quite suddenly started being different about his phone.. if I'd pick it up he'd grab it out of my hand real quick and ask what I wanted to use it for and then he'd do that for me, but he'd do it so that I couldn't see the screen. It gave me weird vibes for sure, but didn't seem worth talking about or really being worried about because I love him so much. Now his phone is pretty much attached to him at all times and if i'm sitting next to him and he picks it up at all, he turns it in this strange way so that I can't see the screen. He uses it to "browse the internet" all throughout the day.. when we're waiting for food at a restaurant, when he's waiting for me to pick him up from work, etc. I always thought he was reading the news, browsing facebook, etc until this week when I discovered that he is watching porn on it ONLY. Every website visited in his phone's history is a porn site.. nothing else. Honestly, I feel worried and a little hurt, but I don't know if this is a valid way to feel so I have not yet confronted him. He has no idea that I know this. I understand that it is super normal to watch porn.. even daily.. and we've watched it together sometimes.. So I think a big part of my worry is the way he has been hiding it. Is it normal to watch porn all during the day like that? Should I be worried? I love him and don't want to hurt him or cause drama, but I feel weird inside. I wish I wouldn't have discovered it at all.

He is 25. We have sex pretty much every day. Sometimes multiple times a day. We make love every few days.
 
Well i totally agree with you about being normal

But then thing is that why is he hidding it when you guys have watched it before ...

i mean i think u both need to talk about it maybe he sees things in porn that he would wanna have but he cant with you idk just saying idk what you guys do but it could be a possibility maybe he atleast tries to see n imaguine how it feels

but remeber where there is love there should be trust .. talk to him let him know or ask him why he watches it but dnt show a mad face because hell feel pressure show him like a normal thing just try to find out why hes leading to watch porn

he might be addicted to sex ... or in the other hand he might try to find new ways to do it in bed since you guys do it alot .. remeber everything on excess is bad he will get bored or you will get bored ... think about that too ok =]

goodluck i hope i helped
 
I think that he needs to see someone like a therapist. If you're having sex nearly everyday then there's no reason that he needs to watch a lot of porn. Maybe you need to do something to spice up your sex life? Just some suggestions. Good luck.
 
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