girlfriend was staying with her parents not that she was coming back right this instant. she was taking the time to think over the relationship issues, cause we both had issues to work on before we try. Her mom comes up in the middle of the night drunk and screaming at her and her 8 yr old daughter. About how her and her husband got into a fight over our quarrel and how I'm a bad person. And if I she was to continue talking to me she could stay with her stepfather or if she cut all lines of communication she could go with her mother all while he mother made extreme gestures to prover he point. my girlfriend said "why does anything have to be done I'm just trying to work threw my issues and any depressions I make are correct for me and my daughter". She then went off on her saying my self the boyfriend is not important and that I'm only one year out of her life of 28 years. Meaning that her mother is more important than I am and what ever her mother wants to do my girlfriend should do. She then Said " he may not be important to you but he is important to me" she left and then came back up a few moments later and told her to get out of her house. Then her daughter started to cry cause her own grandmother could not provide a safe shelter and was worried how they would get there possessions back. All because her mother could not let her work threw her issues on her own, on her own time to make good ones for her and her daughter.
She just wanted a safe place to be able to think so she can make the right choices for her and her daughter! and her mom cant eve provide that!
She moved back in we are seeking treatment to get threw this and our issues. Know she is a great parent and person and works hard, teaches her kids goes to school and still has time to be a great girlfriend. We are stable and doing Ok but please tell me what we should do and who is at fault!! please help us!!!
If you need more background please reference the last 3 post I put up to explain her family and there issues!
She just wanted a safe place to be able to think so she can make the right choices for her and her daughter! and her mom cant eve provide that!
She moved back in we are seeking treatment to get threw this and our issues. Know she is a great parent and person and works hard, teaches her kids goes to school and still has time to be a great girlfriend. We are stable and doing Ok but please tell me what we should do and who is at fault!! please help us!!!
If you need more background please reference the last 3 post I put up to explain her family and there issues!