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<blockquote data-quote="YourAskingMem" data-source="post: 1465759" data-attributes="member: 583639">Teresa works Monday through Friday. Eight hours days. her m-i-law Janet, watches her twins who are 3 monday, Monday, Wednesday and Friday&#039;s. Because of the cold weather, she offered to come to their house and stay with the kids. My other daughter watches them Tuesday and Thursdays. She would keep them every day, but Janet won&#039;t have it.&nbsp; Before, Janet had them at her house.It was agreed..she comes there. Teresa looks forward to seeing her babies after a hard day. But when she gets home, they are clinging to their &quot;meemaw&quot; as Janet is called. Well... Nick is calling janet &quot;mama&quot; now...she has been watching them for two weeks. And in this time. Teresa has come home and would be making dinner...when she saw all her kitchen cabinets had been re-arranged. to they way Janet prefers. Also, Janet bought ugly...chair covers my daughter does not like..and put them on her dining room chairs. She notices dirt and always make sure she lets my daughter know, and she cleans it better. Janet saw Teresa was upset and called her later that night...And said...I know your upset. But you&#039;ll have to get use to it. If your going to work such long hours, this is the way it&#039;s going to be. Nick calls &quot;mama&quot; and both Janet and Teresa turn to answer him. this is driving my daughter into a very sad state of mind and she is quite upset by it. her husband Eric says they should be greatful she does all these things. They never pay her. She says GOD put her on this earth to do what she is doing...watching her babies. Sounds like a VC Andrews Novel to me. My daughter will not say anything because she is the type who lets things happen...and bites her tongue. She needs to speak up. By next year the kids will be in day care and then full time school.....things will be better. But she is confusing the kids...and upsetting my daughter. I suggest she tell hubby o.k. then...I will quit qorking and stay with the kids. I&#039;ll go back to work when they start school. But hubby, you need to get a couple more jobs. So we can pay the bills. I bet he&#039;ll have a talk with mom then. And be in my daughters corner. Any suggestions out there? Please let me know. I know they are greatful, and she is doing a wonderful thing...but there has to be a limit, don&#039;t you think? Eric can&#039;t talk to his mother...obviously scared of her. Eric would rather listen to his wifes cries and hear her misery. As is Janet&#039;s husband, who is of no help as he is quite hen pecked. Please don&#039;t say she has to be strong, leave her husband, fire Janet, all this has been said. So fresh ideas please. Thanks for your time.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="YourAskingMem, post: 1465759, member: 583639"] Teresa works Monday through Friday. Eight hours days. her m-i-law Janet, watches her twins who are 3 monday, Monday, Wednesday and Friday's. Because of the cold weather, she offered to come to their house and stay with the kids. My other daughter watches them Tuesday and Thursdays. She would keep them every day, but Janet won't have it. Before, Janet had them at her house. It was agreed..she comes there. Teresa looks forward to seeing her babies after a hard day. But when she gets home, they are clinging to their "meemaw" as Janet is called. Well... Nick is calling janet "mama" now...she has been watching them for two weeks. And in this time. Teresa has come home and would be making dinner...when she saw all her kitchen cabinets had been re-arranged. to they way Janet prefers. Also, Janet bought ugly...chair covers my daughter does not like..and put them on her dining room chairs. She notices dirt and always make sure she lets my daughter know, and she cleans it better. Janet saw Teresa was upset and called her later that night...And said...I know your upset. But you'll have to get use to it. If your going to work such long hours, this is the way it's going to be. Nick calls "mama" and both Janet and Teresa turn to answer him. this is driving my daughter into a very sad state of mind and she is quite upset by it. her husband Eric says they should be greatful she does all these things. They never pay her. She says GOD put her on this earth to do what she is doing...watching her babies. Sounds like a VC Andrews Novel to me. My daughter will not say anything because she is the type who lets things happen...and bites her tongue. She needs to speak up. By next year the kids will be in day care and then full time school.....things will be better. But she is confusing the kids...and upsetting my daughter. I suggest she tell hubby o.k. then...I will quit qorking and stay with the kids. I'll go back to work when they start school. But hubby, you need to get a couple more jobs. So we can pay the bills. I bet he'll have a talk with mom then. And be in my daughters corner. Any suggestions out there? Please let me know. I know they are greatful, and she is doing a wonderful thing...but there has to be a limit, don't you think? Eric can't talk to his mother...obviously scared of her. Eric would rather listen to his wifes cries and hear her misery. As is Janet's husband, who is of no help as he is quite hen pecked. Please don't say she has to be strong, leave her husband, fire Janet, all this has been said. So fresh ideas please. Thanks for your time. [/QUOTE]

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