My son does not like his car seat. Evertime we go out he starts crying because he wants out. I find that only a pacifier will get him to stop. And that is my next problem he is not able to hold it in his mouth. I tried an ortho pacifier and then switched to a longer nipple figuring the other was to short and he still is not able to hold it. Any suggestions on how to make car rides a litle less noisy? Also what type of pacifier should he use? The only time I give it to him is in the car.