Sorry it's so long but trust me you WANT to know what he did.
So, my best friend 'Jack' we'll call him begged me to bring him on my family vacation. I told him I would but I already had two other people going. He told me to tell them "Jack is moving in a year and I want to spend time with him." Um, he wanted me to un-invite them so he could go! Maybe he was joking, I didn't really pay attention to him (he was annoying me). Eventually, a BIG blow up with the other two people broke us up and they were not going anymore. I asked Jack if he was going to go even though it was the week before we went to nationals (we would miss like 5 practices but we've been practicing for like 9 months, we're perfect.) He PROMISED. Then a month later I asked him again. He PROMISED. So, I get to church one night and I told our coach he was going with me. She freaked out and said I could but he couldn't. His team got on the phone and called him all at once and texted him all at once telling him he couldn't go. Now, I understand how they feel. But I asked him twice if he would go any way. They all hung up and stopped texting. They come up to me and go "HA! He said he won't go with you!" I was like yeah right I doubt it. He comes to church late, comes up to me and says "I'm not going to the beach with you..." He has no idea how much that hurt. Oh, and he just expected me not to care. He still thought he was spending the night and going to Carowinds with me the next morning! I just told him it was fine. I'm the kind of person who holds in his feelings but they just came up all at once today. I don't ever want to talk to him again! He promised twice, he ditched me, his BEST friend for his team!, and he is moving soon and that's like saying "I'm going to be out of your life in about 8 months, but I don't really care if I ditch you, not like I care about the time we have left." Should I be angry? I want to give him the cold shoulder, is that right? He is in China for 3 weeks, I promised him I'd email him every other day but I'm so upset that I'm not going to. Is it wrong that when he comes home I want to pretty much pretend I don't know him? What should I do about this?? I'm not going to make him go but it hurt me so bad...
PS- He is a good friend he really is. He's never done something like this before. He is usually always there for me. Me and him were the picture perfect 'bromance'. Hahah. I just really don't know what to do, I want him to just leave me alone for a LONG time.
So, my best friend 'Jack' we'll call him begged me to bring him on my family vacation. I told him I would but I already had two other people going. He told me to tell them "Jack is moving in a year and I want to spend time with him." Um, he wanted me to un-invite them so he could go! Maybe he was joking, I didn't really pay attention to him (he was annoying me). Eventually, a BIG blow up with the other two people broke us up and they were not going anymore. I asked Jack if he was going to go even though it was the week before we went to nationals (we would miss like 5 practices but we've been practicing for like 9 months, we're perfect.) He PROMISED. Then a month later I asked him again. He PROMISED. So, I get to church one night and I told our coach he was going with me. She freaked out and said I could but he couldn't. His team got on the phone and called him all at once and texted him all at once telling him he couldn't go. Now, I understand how they feel. But I asked him twice if he would go any way. They all hung up and stopped texting. They come up to me and go "HA! He said he won't go with you!" I was like yeah right I doubt it. He comes to church late, comes up to me and says "I'm not going to the beach with you..." He has no idea how much that hurt. Oh, and he just expected me not to care. He still thought he was spending the night and going to Carowinds with me the next morning! I just told him it was fine. I'm the kind of person who holds in his feelings but they just came up all at once today. I don't ever want to talk to him again! He promised twice, he ditched me, his BEST friend for his team!, and he is moving soon and that's like saying "I'm going to be out of your life in about 8 months, but I don't really care if I ditch you, not like I care about the time we have left." Should I be angry? I want to give him the cold shoulder, is that right? He is in China for 3 weeks, I promised him I'd email him every other day but I'm so upset that I'm not going to. Is it wrong that when he comes home I want to pretty much pretend I don't know him? What should I do about this?? I'm not going to make him go but it hurt me so bad...
PS- He is a good friend he really is. He's never done something like this before. He is usually always there for me. Me and him were the picture perfect 'bromance'. Hahah. I just really don't know what to do, I want him to just leave me alone for a LONG time.