Before you get too worked up you should know that marijuana is not as dangerous as some people make it out to be.
But he's still a kid and shouldn't be smoking at such a young age.
If it makes you uncomfortable, and he won't listen, then maybe you need to take care of yourself. Get out of that situation. If he cares more about getting high than your feelings, than you shouldn't be with him. And maybe if you threaten to leave, he'll shape up, and knock it off. I'm sorry you have that kind of stress, it sucks, I know. But just hang in there, I'm sure it will get better.
You know what, i'm quite a bit older than you are,and my boyfriend smokes weed all the time too. It bothers me ALOT. I threatned to leave him and I couldn't do it. I just put up with him... it hurts me all the time, i'm not the happiest person I could be. I'm constantly worrying about him and what he's doing, it's stressful. I keep thinking of the times we have fun together, and that's why i'm still with him, because we have fun the times i'm not worrying or mad at him. He's not going to change, unless he wants to change. I'm waiting for that day to come. Tell him everything you know, if he cares about you, he might at least think about how it's affecting you. Other than that, move on live your life without him, or be prepared to be upset alot
Well.. If he won't stop chances are he'll never really have a life.. He can only stop if he wants to too so unless a really wants to stop he's not going too. I would recommend maybe dumping him if you can't get him to stop. Do this preferably when he's high?
13 can be a bit young, but i wouldn't ever discourage smoking some weed. Explain how you feel about it and if he stops then its all good but if he doesn't, don't hold it against him, smoking pot is great, its an all natural drug that makes you feel great. it makes tons of things better. your mind becomes more creative with what ever your doing, if its listening to music or watching a 3d movie or just watching t.v, even physical activities are sometimes better, I use to get high and go skateboarding all the time. If he is just doing to because he thinks its cool or because he thinks other will think he is cool then i would say to stop smoking it, people like that are whats keeping pot criminalized, Im going to be a married man is 8 month and i smoke weed every single day for the last 5 years. I live a very normal life in a great house with a great career, great goals and a very loving beautiful wife. Im just an everyday normal guy and I smoke weed by myself at home.
Like i said, 13 is defiantly too young but don't judge him on just smoking weed, judge him on his personality and choices he makes while under the influence. because if the he cant take control of situations while high then he doesn't deserve to smoke it, and like i said, people like that are the reason weed is given a bad name in the eyes of the law.
leave him.
he wants to and you dont want him to.. its not gonna work out.
he's just going to think you are controlling him.
thats like being with someone who enjoys cheating and you dont want them to..
if he stops, its still going to bug you that he wants to do it.
horrible comparison but its all i could come up with.
If its bugging you, tell him that your going to break up, you dont need to be around someone who is doing drugs. If he wont listen then he obviously thinks smoking weed is more important than your relationship. Make him choose between you and smoking weed. If he chooses to continue to smoke weed then he is not worth your time. your too young for a serious relationship anyway, your still kids and need to be kids.